Want to know the reason why it’s so difficult to get over a broken relationship, whether you are the leaver or the levee? The reason is contained in one six-letter word that is probably the most powerful in our whole vocabulary. Belief.

Its one thing ‘knowing’ from a rational point of view that its over. You may have spent many hours, days, weeks and months and even years thinking about the pros and cons of your relationship. You may have had periods of separation, both mentally and physically and then returned to the relationship. You may have experienced times when you withdrew or felt numb or just didn’t give the relationship a great deal of thought while you got on with the distractions of every day life. You may have come to realise, after much prolonged thought, that there is no way you could imagine spending the rest of your life with this person. And then perhaps you looked inside yourself, went deeper, called on your intuition to help you make the decision, which you then declared, to your partner.

So once the words are out; once you have declared your intention to leave the relationship, for whatever reason you give, is it really over?

Whilst you may ‘know’ from a deep place of knowing that there is no more mileage in your relationship, believing it is an altogether different process.

If you believed it was really over, there would be a feeling of liberation and freedom that comes not only from the release of the turbulent emotions that you had been feeling for however long. There is also an acceptance, an allowing and a forgiveness of self and other that washes over you like a refreshing waterfall on a hot summers day. Cool and cleansing all at once. To get to that stage, many people need evidence of varying kinds.

Some people need evidence that they can operate singly, manage their lives, their finances, their families and themselves to the standard and degree they had in parternship before they feel its really over. Some people crave love and a sense of belonging and are unable to experience the relationship as truly over before that replacement comes along. Some people think that if they give themselves time, (but no-one is clear how much time) they will heal and they will know when its really over.

If you are struggling right now in a limbo land of knowing its over but not quite believing it, I have some wonderful skills to show you that will help you make sense of where you are now and understand why being in this place is absolutely vital for your future growth and your future relationships. Once you know how to operate your life from this new perspective, you’ll experience a freedom on a daily basis that you simply cannot access right now.

So, give me a call and lets move you from ‘knowing’ to ‘believing’ so that you can start healing, stop the turmoil and get on with this fabulous life!

Till tomorrow,

Love Francine