I have just spent the last four days, ‘holed up’ in Hornsey with 7 other therapists learning breakthrough skills that make the most incredible difference to the way couples communicate with each other. I am so excited because This New Way To Love is guaranteed to heal breakdowns as well as creating and rekindling romance.

During the past few days I have been blow away by the quality of understanding and connection created by being in a specific dialogue process with complete strangers. I can tell you that being with people I have never met before for 9 hours a day, four days in a row can be a bit like being in the Big Brother House. There is nowhere to hide and the level of personal exposure (all in the service of helping couples get the love they want and keep the love they have) is, well, as exposed as it gets. This is boot camp for Therapists.

I have embarked on a year long course that will take couples to the next level in their relationships. Right now most of us are apprentices when it comes to understanding ourselves in love. These new skills get to the core of what stops us from connecting and loving and being loved. The only way to experience real love is in relationship. Loving yourself is absolutely necessary. But the only way you will ever really love yourself and know yourself is by being in relationship with someone who challenges your ability to love yourself and love them. Sounds crazy doesn’t it? But it’s only in relationship that we can grow into the most loving versions of ourselves.

And, if ultimately, most of us would rather be in relationship than out of it, what gets in the way of us having relationships that give us the love we want and provides our partners with the love they need?

Here’s a typical example. Have you ever asked yourself why sometimes your partner just doesn’t seem to hear you? Its not like you are speaking a foreign language, though you might as well be given the response you sometimes get. How is it possible when you are sure you have made yourself clear that something stops your partner from understanding what you are saying? And, why is it that you are often unable to give each other what you both need and stay in love or at the very least in ‘like’ with each other.

Then again, why is it that some people find it so difficult to find and keep loving relationships? Why do so many people seem to repeat the same old patterns or say they just don’t want to be in relationship right now, or give up on love entirely?

The answer is that the old way doesn’t work and they have not yet found a new way to love.

Just for a moment, imagine that you had finally discovered a New Way to Love and be loved by your partner. What would that be like for you? Would this new way ensure that you would look forward to being together, talking, laughing, making love and enjoying each other? Would this new way include passion and romance, fun and adventure? I’m sure you’d definitely want to feel properly connected, like the other person knew you inside out. Like no matter what you said, they really ‘got’ you. They would understand your needs, respect your individuality and it would be easy to trust them with your vulnerability knowing that with this person you would always feel safe. Imagine what it would be like to experience that kind of love?

Even if your relationship is less than perfect right now, I can guarantee that using this New Way to Love, it would be impossible for you both not to be connected in a way that given all your previous experiences, you may not have ever believed is possible. All those issues and seemingly insurmountable challenges could be overcome using this New Way to Love without even changing the circumstances of your life.

Now imagine that this new way to love someone was just a conversation away.

Whether you are already in relationship, or would like to be or if you relationship is on the rocks right now, its possible to reconnect right now and in just one session, deeply enhance your capacity to be loved and love.

Because I want to provide you with the evidence that this stuff works, I have a special invitation for one special couple. If you are ready and willing to find a New Way to Love, I will give you my time freely. I will need you to email me with three specific reasons why you want to find A New To Love and I will pick a couple to work with over three sessions. This is a high net worth offer and my proviso is that I can document (changing names to respect privacy) your sessions to show how the dialogue works and how it has worked for you.

So what are you waiting for? One couple, one chance and one incredible New Way to Love is waiting for you. I’m waiting to hear from you and I cannot wait to work with you.

Love Francine