People visit The Divorce Doctor when they have the symptoms of relationship breakdown.

This does not necessarily mean that they will divorce. During the past 14 years I have created a programme designed specifically to save marriages. My methods differ from Relate, counselling and therapy because I offer immediate, easy to apply tools and strategies to couples and individuals who want to get past upset and move forward with their relationships.

Sometimes a long term relationship or marriage just cannot be saved and for these couples and individuals I offer the emotional and practical skills necessary to help them to stay sane during the craziest time of their lives.

Why Visit the Divorce Doctor?

Take a look at the following questions. If you answer ‘yes’ to three or more, then I can help you. Just give me a call on 0208 416 0121 between 9am and 6pm. We’ll have an informal assessment chat, get to know each other and decide together the best way forward. It’s always good to talk!

• Have you been unhappy in your relationship for more than a year?
• Would you like to find a way to rebuild your relationship?
• Have you thought about separation or divorce but not discussed it with your partner?
• Are you worried that you may not be making the right decision?
• Are you staying in your relationship for the sake of the children?
• Have you decided to get divorced or are being divorced and need help navigating the legal procedures?
• Do you want to avoid huge legal fees or horrible court battles but don’t know how to do that?
• Are you worried about money issues?
• Would unbiased financial advice be helpful?
• Are you finding it hard to cope with the pain of separation?
• On some days do you find it difficult to manage the kids, your work and cope with divorce?
• Do you want to find a way to communicate clearly with your former partner rather than the way you speak and listen to each other right now?
• Do you want to avoid bitterness and battles?
• Do you want to divorce without drama and with your dignity in tact?
• Do you want your identity back?
• Are you ready to move forward with your life but still feel stuck in the past?

Which Of These Services Would Benefit You?

• If you are a couple experiencing problems in your partnership, I work with you individually and together to recover and rebuild your relationship.
• Would you like to stay together and redesign your relationship so that you both get the best out of it? I can show you how to hold on to what works and stop what doesn’t.
• If your relationship is breaking down, I am skilled and effective in providing you with honest, supportive, ‘no-blame’ coaching to help you make the right choices going forward.
• If you've already decided to divorce, I will help you create a personal route map so you can navigate the rocky road ahead. I know that every divorce is different so we will focus on your specific situation not on formulaic coaching or therapy.
• I will show you how to transform any setbacks into opportunities for change and growth
• If you are divorced I will help you to regain ‘full health’, heal your heart and learn to love again

HOW IT WORKS

Choose from Individual One to One Coaching or Couples Coaching Programmes. You may have recognised your own situation in the above services and become more aware that you could benefit from professional support right now. I offer Face to Face and Telephone Coaching as well as email back up, so it doesn’t matter where in the world you live

First things First : Your Complimentary Assessment Call.

Often people send me emails requesting information about sessions and prices. I always ask them to just give me a call so we can have an informal chat and I can assess the situation.

I want to know about you and your relationship before I go ahead and book you in to work with me. And that’s exactly what we will do on our complimentary assessment call. As you speak to me, you will find that its much easier to know what skills you will need to get you from where you are now to where you need to be. You’ll also hear how, specifically, I will work with you, by using a practical down to earth approach that will provide you with the clarity and focus to make the right choices going forward.  So just give me a call, and lets get talking.

Next Step: Deciding To Work With Me

When I have assessed your situation and we decide to work together, I will send you a Pre-Meeting/Call Questionnaire for you to complete before our first session, which may be face to face or on the telephone. At this point we discuss our confidentiality agreement, how many sessions we will need and fees payable.

First Session: 2 and one half hour face to face or telephone meeting

This is where the real work begins one step at a time. My aim is to show you how to build a solid foundation for your future whether you stay together or decide to part. During our first meeting we will be addressing the issues arising from our complimentary assessment session. With an understanding of your situation, I will give you a unique and specific skill, which will show you how, you got to ‘here’ from ‘there’. You’ll learn how it happened and why it happened and exactly what you now need to know so you can move forward with your life and avoid repeating the same patterns ever again.

Second, third, fourth and fifth sessions

Sessions two to five are 90-minute telephone meetings. When you have completed all the sessions you will have every skill and strategy you need to choose the right way forward for you. You’ll understand how you operate in relationship; your rules for relationship, how to get away from negative self-talk and how to create communication miracles that get you heard and understood. Any worries and fears about the present and future will be ironed out and as because you’ll have had time to digest all you have learned, you will have a complete understanding of yourself and be fully equipped to make some life changing choices. By the end of these sessions you will feel calmer and you’ll have the clarity that will allow you to view the future positively. I promise!

COUPLES COACHING

If both of you decide to work with me, when you begin your Couples Coaching, each of you will work with me on your own for the same amount of sessions as above. I don’t believe in putting two upset people in a room together and talking about their ‘issues’. It goes a whole lot deeper than that. I have found that working with couples on an individual basis to start with allows each person to feel heard and understood. In the first sessions you are working on yourself to discover how you ‘operate’ in relationship so that you are fully prepared and ready to meet as a couple for the joint session. This is a one off three-hour session, which I facilitate. It sounds a long time but we have a great deal of work to cover and the time just flies. After the session, you will receive specific homework to use over the next few weeks before you return for a one-hour review session. Thereafter, review sessions are scheduled in as appropriate.

Please contact me to find out availability and prices for both Individual and Couples Coaching.